Do you think of your daughter-in-law as a daughter? I like brand-name bags. Because it is very solid, it is not easy to get rid of the 3 or 4 books; it feels very good and can be mastered by one hand; it looks like there is a kind of non-floating at...
Do you think of your daughter-in-law as a daughter? I like brand-name bags. Because it is very solid, it is not easy to get rid of the 3 or 4 books; it feels very good and can be mastered by one hand; it looks like there is a kind of non-floating atmosphere…… these are all nonsense. I like it because I am expensive. As long as you have a brand-name bag, even if you don’t say “I have the economic ability to buy a bag worth 50,000 yuan”, you can also “decorate it”. Although I feel like a vulgar person who loves sympathy, this is my honest heart. So I like brand-name bags, no, to be precise, I like brand-name bags.
As I said, the brand-name bag I own should be able to fill the whole shopping cart, but in fact I only have 2. One is the Y-brand bag that my younger brother bought on Outlet when he was traveling to Italy. In order to reduce my luggage, my younger brother dropped the box and dust bag, and stuffed the expensive brand-name bag back in his suitcase.
I trusted him to my blessing, and when the bag reached my hands, it seemed to have been used for 10 years. It will make people suspicious after reading it. It was bought in a second-hand market rather than in Outlet. Seeing the pleats on my first brand bag, my heart hurt like it was torn.
In order to cleanse the pleats on the flat bag, I took out all the silk scarves at home, stuffed them into the bag, and prayed at the same time, but no matter what I did, it was useless. Whether it was a person or a brand-name bag, the snails would not be easily eliminated once they were produced. Just when I almost forgot the painful memory of the first brand-name bag, the second brand-name bag came, and it was a gift from my mother-in-law who I never thought of. On the eve of the marriage, both families agreed to simplify the marriage, but the mother-in-law said that she hoped not to omit the cash gift①. No matter whether it was at that time or now, I don’t know why the woman had to give the cash gift. For a long time, the traditional custom is that the man has to prepare a house where he will live together in the future, while the woman prepares the furniture, household appliances, etc. in the house.
Note: ① In the Korean wedding custom, the bride will give the groom a gift as a gift to her family to express her integrity. Today, in addition to the silk, you can also use gifts or cash instead.
It is difficult to buy a house because it costs more money to prepare furniture and household appliances, so I have to give the man a cash gift to express my gratitude? Or because the man spent a lot of money on the wedding, he had to help him recharge his post? However, the times have changed. There are not many men who are now carrying a house to marry a wife. Most couples save money to buy houses together and prepare to buy homes together. The same is true for me and my husband, but despite this, it is really irritating that my husband still asked me to prepare for cash gifts.
Since my husband had only worked for one year at that time, he had almost no savings. Although my in-laws have a guarantee to pay for a full rent, if I really want to calculate it, I also paid a similar amount of marriage fee. It was obvious that the money spent between the two squares was similar. I had to hand-pick out the 250,000 yuan I had saved with "blood, sweat, and eyeliner" and pack it and give it to me for my hand because of the dead tradition. Of course, I didn't smash all the rear lenses of the car parked in the parking lot just because I couldn't afford that money, but it was definitely not a pleasant experience.
Note: ② The tenant first pays a deposit to the landlord, usually 50% to 70% of the total price of the house. After that, there is no need to pay any rent during the check-in period. You only need to pay water, electricity, gas, management fees, etc. After check-out, the tenant can get the money you paid back.
In short, we do not intend to comply with other luxury customs besides the gift fee, such as giving each other a watch or bag. But the situation became a bit ambiguous later. Because my husband wanted to buy a car before getting married, he still lacked 80,000 yuan. I didn't think it was necessary to pay in installments for this amount of money, so I took out the money without hesitation and said to my husband, "Please add it when buying a car!"
After my mother-in-law found out, she thought I was sensible and well-behaved, and praised me very much, so she decided to buy a bag without authorization and give it to this kind-hearted and handsome daughter-in-law who bought a car by her son.
"Are you working?"
"Yes, but it doesn't matter if you can talk about the phone. Is there anything that mother-in-law has?"
"I'm in the department store now. I want to buy a bag for you."
"Huh? Bag?"
"Yes! Although I don't have much money, because you are very obedient, I want to buy a bag for you. What color do you like?"
When I was at work, I suddenly received this shocking call and asked me to choose the color of the bag, which made me a little at a loss. Although I really want to ask what brand is my mother-in-law? What style? But I'm really embarrassed to open my mouth. My mother-in-law said she was in the store now and asked me to choose quickly, so I just said whatever I thought.
"Well, dark blue."
"Milk tea color?"
"No, it's dark blue."
"Okay! The milk tea color is very beautiful."
Is my pronunciation irregular? Or is the correct answer already milk tea color? Just like that, my second brand-name bag was born, but I was not happy. Although it is used to show it to others, it is not a style that I can play with. Even when my mother saw it, she gazes and said, "Oh, what's wrong with this ……bags?"
"How? Are you satisfied with the bag?"
"Mom, I really thank you very much. But …… is a bit different from the style I want. Can I change it? ”
"Yes……So that? Then I will contact the store!"
The next day, I went to the department store with my bag. The beautiful bags in the store, including the dark blue bag I said, are waiting for me with both arms open. The store told me that I received a call from my mother-in-law, so I asked me to choose the bag I like easily. This is the first time I have visited a famous boutique store in a department store in my life. I tried to get a few and finally selected one of them.
"I want to change this one."
"Okay, customer. This bag is both fashionable and beautiful all year round! You still need to add a difference of 30,000 yuan." What does this sentence mean? Do you have to pay another 30,000 yuan? The store explained that because the bag I chose was more expensive than the one my mother-in-law gave me, the difference needed. I thought to myself, "I don't seem to like that," so I put down the bag that was fashionable but expensive.
However, embarrassing things continue to happen. Even if I choose the bag next to it, or the other bag next to it, the difference that needs to be supplemented is between 30,000 and 40,000. Finally, I chose other colors of the same style, but even this way, I had to add an extra 20,000 yuan.
"Customer, because the bags your mother-in-law bought are special products, basically no matter which one you want to change, you need to make up the difference!"
"Oh…… So is this bag the cheapest in the entire store?"
My face became red and my voice was slightly shaking. I feel both face and self-esteem. The store clerk did not answer my question, but instead said something even more shocking.
"What do you think of this? This is a new product launched this time. Anyway, it will be worth the difference. This one is the most popular! Your sister-in-law also bought this one!"
, wait, wait. Why did my sister-in-law suddenly appear? So that's it. My mother-in-law and sister-in-law came to buy my bag together, and then bought the special price package that was not listed in the store at all. The ones they bought for my daughter-in-law were the latest and most popular new product packages.
My hands kept shaking because of the store clerk. For the cash gift, I paid out one drop of deposit every month, and the 250,000 yuan worth of blood, sweat, and purgation were only exchanged for a special price package. This is really too absurd. I felt like bleeding, sweat and purgation were about to be sprayed in my eyes immediately.
The sentence "Treat your daughter-in-law as a daughter" is simply nonsense. The daughter-in-law and daughter are like special price packs and new product packs, and the two are completely different.
The second brand-name bag, I have never used it once.
Book introduction: The daughter-in-law is also the pearl in other people's eyes: The surrogate daughter-in-law who recovers from the "good daughter-in-law disease" has finally recovered and awakened. Author: The daughter-in-law Publishing House: Adopting Culture Publishing Date: 2019/10/31 Author Introduction/The daughter-in-law
Born by the zodiac sign is a tiger. After being 30, I am still regarded as a child who needs teaching by my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law always calls me "daughter-in-law", but I don't know when it started, this kind of burdensome call sounds like "bad daughter-in-law". After winning the role of a daughter-in-law, he was unaware of the situation of being in a bad way and was destroyed into the world of the in-laws. He has been fighting alone until now. I don’t know that it has been 4 years. Offensive power and defense power are increasing day by day, and so are now in this moment!
