Sometimes, it's good to say that. ● The meaning of a jar is very simple, which is to put the burned bones into the urn. However, there are quite a few questions about "inside" of the jar. Before installing the jar, we will ask our fami...
Sometimes, it's good to say that.
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The meaning of a jar is very simple, which is to put the burned bones into the urn. However, there are quite a few questions about "inside" of the jar.
Before installing the jar, we will ask our family to "bone" in the bone ventilator. The operator will lead the way and ask a family to use chopsticks to put a bone in the urn. When you let go, you have to shout, "Someone enters a new home!"
Every time you hear this sentence, you feel very pleased that it is easier to enter a new home in the world than in the sun.
At this time, the people in the burial club will also slightly introduce the bones of the dead to their families.
"This bone is so beautiful. Look, this viewing sound bone is so complete, and it is only a blessed person. Don't believe it? If you don't believe it, please ask the cremation brother. Are you rarely seen?"
The so-called "viewing sound bone" is a person's second vertebra, which looks like the head of the world's voice, and is in a sitting position, so we call it the viewing sound bone. Everyone will have it, but people with loose bones can easily break.
said it was rare, and it was not rare, but in order to cooperate with the funeral club, we would all smile mysteriously and look at the head. When my family saw our profound and unpredictable smile, they felt happy that their parents were very blessed and happy.
"Ah, the bones of your family should be black, and they should be transformed into this way.""Ah, this bone is pink, and you should take high blood pressure medicines often."
"Ah, this bone is yellow, and you should be ……"
Whenever you hear the chef introduce the appearance of the bones to determine the physical condition of the deceased during your lifetime, you think they are very professional and have seriously said that the deceased had suffered from the disease. When family members recall the situation of the rebirth during their lifetime, they often look at the flow of bones.
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When I was loading the jar, the teacher was not there. When my family saw the bones in black, they asked my senior: "Why is this bone dark?"
The senior answered: "Because it is burned with diesel, it is carbon."
The family asked again, "Why is that bone yellow?"
The student replied, "Maybe the clothes that were buried with the burial were dyed on the bones."
I widened my eyes from the side, thinking to myself, my God, this is too unprofessional!
After packing the jar, I couldn't help but ask the elders: "Why can other tribute teachers so professionally explain what diseases the deceased has and what medicines they have taken? Is our answer so sensible?"
The elder smiled and said:
"We pack so many jars every day. Have you noticed that if we don't talk about those diseases, taking medicine, etc. when packing jars, will the feeling of family be better? ? People have passed away, and now it is the last step. Can you stop studying what diseases he has and what medicines he has taken through his bones? As long as you know that he is not sick or painful, he has walked the last mile of his life well, that's how it's good.
"Sometimes our words will make it difficult for a long time and feel guilty for a long time. Compared to this, I would rather be a person who speaks less and is not professional."
I heard it and pondered for a long time.
This day, I was at the crematorium and learned to be gentle.
※ This article is excerpted from "The Fire is Coming, Running"."The Fire is Coming, Running"
Author: Master
Publisher: Baoping Culture
Publication Date: 2021/07/27
