At this point after marriage, there will be more conflicts! Netizen ranking "Marriage Police" time points top 3

Many celebrities get married and divorced this year, which makes people feel hope and disappointed in their love. But why did the two people who were so fond of each other so much at the beginning go far and finally choose to separate them? Many netizens are familiar with the answers, and the reason is nothing more than these 3.

Top1. After pregnancy and having children

The children are called "the crystal of love", but there are also many people's marriages that have conflicts over children: "I have never touched me since I was pregnant and started having an affair", "My husband is a pig teammate, and I feel upset when I see him coming home and spending time on the sand every day", "The child sleeps with us, and has not had a close relationship for a long time.", "My wife has only children in her eyes, and there is no husband or wife at all", "My wife is tired every time, and she refuses me every time."

And after the child is born, the family's sales are bigger and the responsibility is heavy, and there is no longer any affection for the conversation. Just being mediocre and making money every day is enough to get rid of love; even the attitude of the family's parents towards their children can be the source of the conflict between husband and wife. Therefore, in the investigation of Mom Baobao, "having children" is the first place in the marriage police report.

Top2. Living in the other party's boss's home

Living in the other party's original family is also a very easy cause of disputes for relationships/husbands and wife. Usually, you choose to live in your home, because rent is too burdened with economic pressure, have a long-term family and need someone to take care of, and even if you have children, you need support.

But I actually live in a completely different family, and have completely different habits and ideas in life, so I can't avoid having different ways of doing things. It would be better if you say that you are roommates who are "unrelated" and your boundaries are also very clear and you can even ignore each other. However, if you are going to be close family members, basic gifts and communication are almost inevitable. If one is not handled well and speaks in a bad manner, the conflict between the two families will be painful just by stepping out of the room. Under the influence of negative emotions, it is difficult for accompaniment to have quarrels.

Top3. When holding a wedding banquet

Although there are more and more "micro weddings" now, it is still difficult for someone to want to do a wedding well, leaving a forgetful memory for themselves, or unable to respond to the request of the senior family to force the banquet and follow the process. But there are actually quite a few wedding details, and there are many complicated customs that require teachers to communicate. It is difficult to cooperate with everyone.

And the most common detail in a wedding banquet is the "bet fee". Whether the bet is big or small will affect the mood of the other party’s family. If you feel that you are not valued or too big, you may have a burden on yourself; even if you just do something, it will be difficult to spend so much cash at once. It’s hard to wonder that so many years now, people are willing to only date and not marry.

"Marriage Maintenance Secrets" provided by netizens

. Keep face for each other and be with Taiwan

. Not more

. Active server software

. When a problem occurs, think about how to solve it, not how to separate

. Have a psychological preparation for "needing to be run-in"

. But even so, in the mother and baby communication area, there are still many people who think that "marriage is more delicious". It is better to be popular, and the more time you get along, there are more moving things. It is better to understand each other and cherish the time you are with each other again. Even because of the conversation, there are endless topics to talk about every day, which makes my mind more fulfilling and satisfying.

"There must be a lot of friction, but both parties need wisdom to resolve and communicate." After all, husband and wife are married because of love. If there is a conflict, they only think about how to separate, then the meaning of marriage will be gone.

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